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Dealing with negativity towards your positive mindset

dealing with negativityWorrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, it only empties today of its strength.

It is necessary sometimes to remove people, habits and thought processes that do not serve you in order to create space for the people, New behaviors and thoughts that WILL serve you!

I can’t tell you the “key” to success, but the key to failure of any kind is trying to please everyone. You can’t steal second base with your foot on first!

Focus your attention on those who provide more clarity, direction, energy and support for the direction that you are heading, and let your relationships with the others just run its course.

Not because you “love” them any less, but just because you are going to allow yourself to have a season of separation so that you can approach your new life with grace and ease.

Remember you can never discover the greater oceans until you have the courage to lose sight of the shores…

Be so busy giving attention to those who are brought into closer connection with you that you don’t even have time to give thought to anyone else. It will serve you very well…

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