Honour the purpose of your union

Relationships are living organisms. Anything that has the ability to grow, thrive, wilt, die, change and transform is a living organism – humans, plants, animals, nature… and relationships!

Relationships are an entity of their own, separate from the two individual selves within them. In each relationship there are three separate entities… You, Me, and Us.

Within the space of ‘us’, there is a ‘we’… WE are the container which holds the three pillars that determine the ‘health’ of our relationship at any given moment – these pillars are intimacy, connection and communication. WE are equally responsible for each of them.

In order to extract all the value each of these pillars have to offer us both individually and as a couple, we must let go – of the masks, the walls, the protection mechanisms, the resistance – we must surrender and return to the place of trust and true “in-to-me-see”. 

It is time to take the chance, to embrace ‘the risk’ and show up in all of our totality with each other – to engage with each other with unarmoured hearts. 

It can be scary, it’s vulnerable… but it’s time.  If this sentence resonates with you, then you know you are being called to this space.

Our relationships are also the primary place for expressing and nurturing our sexual energy, which is our life force energy. It is our most natural state.  It is  essential to be deeply connected to this energy both as individuals and as a couple. This energy is not just about sex itself, but it encompasses so much more – it is where we find our most succulent aliveness, and it is the place we birth all of our creations from in our lives.  When our sexual energy shuts down, so does our life.  

Without an open portal to this energy, each of us perish… and in time, so too does the relationship.  

To perish does not mean to die. It means ‘to lose it’s original quality – to rot or decay’.  Often, this is what our relationships accidentally become… a perished, rotten, decayed version of their original quality.  But it doesn’t need to be this way and it is never too late to change it and reverse the ‘damage’!

When we individually open to our sexual energy, we automatically allow our relationships to open and expand also. Our relationships then become the perfect place to explore the depths of ourselves and each other, particularly within the roles of the masculine and feminine. Individually, this expands our lives. As a couple, this expands our love.

This retreat is where you will have the opportunity to create a new blueprint. To do love differently. To release yourselves from the limiting, outdated scripts society handed you about love and replace them with an empowering one – one where both individuals thrive, grow, expand and bloom.

Allow me to show you a new way. A better, more connected way… I want to show you how to create a space where you can both bathe your wounds in love and safety.  

Where you can marinate in all of the feelings and experiences we all want more of… 

Where you feel seen, heard and understood… 

Where you can ask for space to be held, without feeling like you ‘take up all the space’…

Where you both become the best version of yourselves because the container of your relationship holds and supports you.

This retreat is for couples who want to re-ignite and amplify their passion, attraction and desire for each other.  Who want to end the power struggles, and ‘find their place’ where they can rest in utmost peace, surrender, trust and alignment. 

This is for couples who want their relationship to feel like their safe place again.

The key is to know how to truly become ‘partners’ so we can traverse this unchartered terrain together, in each of these three pillars, within the container of ‘us’… as a ‘we’.